How to Find Confidence!

Hello my beautiful readers! Thank goodness it's Friday! How has your week been? Mine felt so long and tiring. Today's post is something a little different and I haven't done anything like this before. It's about confidence, more specifically how to be confident and be happy with yourself. Confidence is one of the main struggles girls or any teenager deals with, even grown women deal with it sometimes. I just want everyone to be confident and happy in their own skin. 

                              

First off we need know what makes people unconfident. It could be a number of things like mean comments said to you by friends or family, body image struggles or no particular reason you just don't feel happy. Whatever the reason there is always a way to push past your unconfident you. You seriously just need to kill that devil inside you and let the real you shine. Think about what makes you unconfident.

People who are unconfident tend to hide the part of themselves that they are unconfident with. If acne is your struggle you tend to hide your face, avoid pictures and always have makeup on(if you don't wear makeup this doesn't apply to you). If weight issues is your struggle you tend to wear clothes that hide your body and have your hands around that part of your body. So has you can see, no matter what your unconfident about you tend to hide it. How do you act towards your unconfident feature?

People are always pushing other people down trying to make them feel unconfident. They think it will make them happier with themselves or change something they are unconfident with. I know its hard, but you just have to ignore them and don't think about it. Don't keep it in the back of your mind it will just push you further down every time you remember it. What I'm trying to say is if people are trying to push you down when you are on your journey of becoming confident just forget it because when your journey is complete and you are super confident those people are going to a speck of dirt on the ground with there own issues and insecurities. Do you have people pushing you down? How do you deal with it? 

One major thing you NEED to change is comparing yourself to others. Everyone has different genes making everyone have different hair, body types, skin, brain, teeth, eyes, lips, hands, legs, feet, hips, boobs, butt. You will NEVER be the same as someone else so you might as well embrace what you got. And I know if you are struggling with acne it's hard to embrace it because it is something that can change and you weren't born with but just remember Your Not Alone, everyone has had their encounter with acne and they know how it feels. Do you compare yourself to others? How can you go about changing this? 

Everyday I want you to look at yourself in the mirror and say "I am so hot", "I am so beautiful" , "I love my ________", "I am going to rock it like nobody's business" , "I am confident". After a while you will start to believe it and be confident. You can't care what other people think and keep pushing yourself down. Don't call yourself ugly or fat or say nobody will ever love me because you will start to believe that too and get super down on yourself. People notice when someone isn't confident and not want to be around you because you are going to bring them down. Do you pick yourself up or push yourself down? 

Also remember that whatever makes you feel good about yourself whether it be wearing no makeup or a full face of makeup! wearing sweats everyday or dresses everyday, wearing a bun or your hair down, whatever it is do it as often as you can, it will give you that instant confidence boost. Even if your 'crush' doesn't like it, honestly whatever, you should care more about your well being than his/hers opinion. Do you wear what makes you confident or go along with the trends or other peoples opinions? 

That's where I am leaving it off today, I will be doing a part 2 in the future. I could ramble on and on about confidence because it's something I believe every single person on this plant should have. If you have any questions feel free to leave them below. Also if there are any other topic you'd like me to talk about leave it down below. I might make this sort of an advice series.... Thoughts? 

                                                      Thanks you beautiful readers!

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